Why I started Unconditional Men?
After working a couple of years on my personal growth and inner transformation and moving to Ibiza in 2019, when talking to men, I often felt a feeling of superficiality, disconnection, of something lost, of not being present, sometimes a deep feeling of discomfort, a lack of bonding, of not truly being who you are, …
Interview with Sudhir on Unconditional Men’s Work
Here's a great in-depth interview with Sudhir on Ibiza Refuge for Dreamers on his +30 years experience with men's work and the work we do with Unconditional Men
Masculinity in a “beautiful business” sense
Because you’ve been the world’s prototype for success, but also the archetype of entitlement. But it doesn’t seem to make you happy, does it? Because the world around you doesn’t want that anymore. And so the man you’ve become doesn’t make sense anymore. Therein lies the wound.
The Alpha Male versus the Omega Man
It is likely that the ongoing evolution of gender and intimate relationships will gradually transform not only human sexuality but also sexual identity. I leave the task of discussing such changes in the female gender for discerning women attuned to the spirit of the times, as well as for the relevant transgender people in the case of nonbinary gender identities. Here I focus on exploring one possible shift in male sexual identity: the movement from the traditional Alpha Male to what I name the Omega Man
The Journey of an Unconditional Man
A journey to find my truth within, my absolute truth, unconditioned from any judgement, blame or shame I was conditioned to growing up or may have gathered throughout my life.
Connecting to Presence
When opening a circle (or connecting to an online group discussion) we open the space with a personal or group exercise that takes us out of our minds (our work tasks, our worries from the day or stress situations we have been in) into our hearts by doing a short meditation, priming exercise or a connection to the body through breathing, movement or dancing, and connect to the energy or emotion you’re in.